Popular actor Adjetey Anang, commonly called Pusher, has revealed that the most difficult part of his 12-year-old marriage was when they had to wait for many years for a child.

According to him, there were many challenges, however, having to wait for seven years for their first child brought them untold pain and struggle.

This is mainly because society frowned upon them, while they themselves were anxious.

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All this while, work, family, and other societal factors, were having a toll on their marriage. “…But the most difficult thing we’ve dealt with was being unable to have a baby when we wanted to… we waited & waited till the 7th year! Societies expectations weighed us down & being known made it even harder for me,” he wrote.

Anang made this revelation on his Instagram page in the lesson 2 of his 12-year lessons learnt in his marriage which he has been sharing with his fans and followers on social media.

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The problems, he said became even insurmountable when his wife finally got pregnant, adding that one of the challenges nearly ended their marriage.

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LESSON 2: WE LEARNT (THE HARD WAY) THAT CHALLENGES NEED NOT LEAVE PAINFUL MEMORIES: We have had many challenges over the years & many bad experiences…from dealing with the pressures of the industry I work in to the tough demands of the industry she works in. But the most difficult thing we've dealt with was being unable to have a baby when we wanted to… we waited & waited till the 7th year! Societies expectations weighed us down & being known made it even harder for me..Over the years, we hav fought, said regrettable things to each other & done things we wish we could take back…Some times we've felt like giving up… the most important question during such times was, do we still want this? If yes then let's stick together & work at it! Sometimes reluctantly we agreed…how do u work on a common goal with someone who has hurt your feelings? We struggled to agree but somehow we made it through each hurdle, stronger & with more respect for each other… I believe in our case if our baby had come earlier, he would have been the focus & our individual weaknesses/flaws would not have been dealt with & would have grown deeper & probably exploded in a matter of time. So we stuck together, deconstructed & begun to build…day by day. When she was pregnant, we had one of the biggest fights we've ever had, one which could have spilt us up 4ever…. but somehow God took us thru & taught us lessons we'll never forget… So when we hav challenges now, we remember that nothing is impossible, once we can work at it together … #12lessonsin12years @elom_anang Photo: @beau___photography Costume (Elom): @pinksugagh Costume (Adjetey): @mmx_neno Hair & makeup: @kukispalour Director: @fiificoleman

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