Ghanaian filmmaker, Leila Djansi has shared a thought provoking piece on relationship matters that has got social media buzzing.
According to the award winning director, women should never cook nor wash for a man they are yet to marry. But the main focal point is when she also advised men not to spend their money on women but rather invest it for their future endevours.
Her statement was in response to a follow-up question a fan asked. We know this part of her perspective would excite most men a lot and the reason is obvious.
Here in Ghana, the moment you tell a woman you love her, be prepared to cater for all her needs, and if you are not careful you’ll extend it to her folks so it’s quite refreshing that this advise is coming from a woman.
See below for excerpts:
“Rolling my eyes all the way back to see my shoulder blades!! Ladies, do NOT go cooking, cleaning and doing laundry in the home of a man who has not married you. He’s not buying a car that requires a test drive. You are an individual human being and you don’t need a master, you WANT a part-ner,” she posted.
However, a gentleman on the thread, Cedrych M Owens Amegah countered: “So can the same lady expect me to make her look beautiful before our marriage?? I mean investing in her if the need be?? Cux I don’t think once in a while helping ur partner to be is a crime here, unless otherwise.”
“Nope. A woman should be able to take care of her own self. You should not be spending money on a woman you are not married to. Save that money and invest in something else, unless of course, you are a sugar daddy. Then you know it’s part of your duties. Then again, cooking and cleaning is not a prerequisite for paying for your partner to look the way that pleases THE BOTH OF YOU,” Leila responded.
Source: www.Ghgossip.com
