A lot of people have it in mind that distance relationships do not work due to insecurity and many other reasons. Here are some few tips on how to keep a distance relationship.
- Make your relationship casual at the beginning
Some people rush into giving their all in all to their partners right from the beginning of their relationship. They even go ahead to plan their future with this person at their early stage, but its always best to know your partner in and out first. This helps you to take a sound decision whether or not to settle down with him or her person. It is also better not have long conversations in the first couple of months. After a couple of months of studying your partner, introduce him or her to your family and friends for them to access the person, if their comments are positive then take it as a good sign.
- Talk about you desires and your commitment with your partner.
After you are convinced about your partner, discuss with him whether he is ready to commit to the relationship irrespective of the distance or not. Get to know about how far he or she wants the relationship to go, whether it will lead to marriage or break up some day.
- Share your dreams and goals with your partner.
Discuss with your partner about your future ambitions, what you want to do, what you want to accomplish in a particular number of years. This is necessary because, your partner must accept and respect your decisions. There should not be a situation whereby your partner would want to manipulate you to be who he or she wants you to be, because such relationships are not healthy.
- Learn to live with your partner when the time is ripe
It is necessary to spend quality time with your partner for a couple of days like going on vacation with him or her before committing to marriage. This helps you to know how your partner behaves when hungry, stressed up, angry, sad, happy, when he or she needs privacy, etc.
