Nigerian media personality and social commentator, Daddy Freeze has slammed Nigerain actress Mary Nkoju after she said African men do not do their wives a favour for paying the utility bills.
Daddy Freeze has taken to his page to fire the mother of three over her recent comment about paying of bills. Mary took to her page and stated that marriage and parenting is a partnership and not one party doing the other party a favour. She emphasized that great marriages are built on teamwork and nothing elese.
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Reacting to the post of the wife of Iroko TV, Dady Freeze called out the actress and pointed out to her that her post was full of contraditions. He also added that the African man pays bills to own their wives who in return serve them.
In his words, he said,
I’m struggling to understand this.
Two people are working, but only one is paying the bills and it’s supposed to be a partnership? 🤷
The banality of this in my opinion, suggests a concoction of contradictions, conveying a message which on the one hand recommends partnership, but then on the other, advocates for African men, whilst at the same time seemingly ignoring the benefits of a patriarchal society.
Traditional African men don’t ‘partner’ with their wives, they pay bills and consequently own women, who in return serve them, while tolerating polygamy and concubinage.
Modernization propounds a social scheme denouncing some of the ‘benefits’ of a patricentric system, in favor of a balance in gender roles and privileges.
I find it inequitable to select only the aspects of both constructs that benefit only a particular gender, increasing the responsibilities of the other while depriving them of their dividends.
Sharing’ instead of ‘paying’ the bills, would have been more appropriate in my opinion.
~FRZ
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Source: ghgossip.com
